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Make your personal admin tasks slightly more delightful by renaming them

Make your personal admin tasks slightly more delightful by renaming them

One a lot of people do is making their passwords something fun to type. That's the right approach: something that makes you happy but is kept secret, so you can be unashamedly dorky.

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Why optimisers are always late

Why optimisers are always late

Optimisers break stuff because they try to carry everything down to the car in one go instead of making multiple trips.

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Leaving Facebook was easier than I expected

Leaving Facebook was easier than I expected

I'd been agonising about it for literally years so I had this plan where I was going to do it and then write to you about the Experience but it was frankly such a non-event that I don't have much to say.

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"How do you know when you're actually right about something and it's not just hubris and confirmation bias?"

"How do you know when you're actually right about something and it's not just hubris and confirmation bias?"

You never know you're right, you just settle into a state of "this is how it looks to me at the moment"

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How to remember a new PIN / digit-based password

How to remember a new PIN / digit-based password

There's a set of digit mnemonics (created, as far as I know, by a Kevin Trudeau for some cassette-based memory-training course in 1995).

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"If it's rude to interrupt, how do you politely interrupt someone who (rudely) interrupts/talks over you?"

"If it's rude to interrupt, how do you politely interrupt someone who (rudely) interrupts/talks over you?"

It's part of a bigger question of, "when someone breaks the social contract, how do you operate in the new, broken environment?"

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When teaching someone how to do something, tell them how to do it badly

When teaching someone how to do something, tell them how to do it badly

Whenever you can't do something exactly as you should, when something has to give, you need the expert to tell you what to prioritise and what to do 'badly'.

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Wanting something is only barely related to enjoying something

Wanting something is only barely related to enjoying something

The brain system that makes you feel an urge to get something - whether that's food, seeing friends, a cigarette - is separate from system of enjoying something.

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“Be yourself” is terrible advice

“Be yourself” is terrible advice

The story of someone who thought of themselves as a provocateur who was just being their authentic self, and then realised they were just being an asshole and should stop it.

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Lukewarm water, not cold, is best for a burn

Lukewarm water, not cold, is best for a burn

Cold water also stops blood flowing to the area, and you need bloodflow to heal