Unsolicited Advice
Why wait for readers to ask questions before suggesting solutions? An advice column that cuts out the middleman.
I figured out what's missing from the advice on morning routines
What is a morning/evening routine actually FOR? There's two different main purposes and advice-givers mix them up
The Animal Crossing / Stardew Valley model for NY goals
Is anyone else a lot weirder about setting New Year's intentions these days?
When forming a new habit: consider not starting small?
The 'tiny habits' theory works by drastically reducing the amount of effort. But miniscule-effort for zero-reward is still maths that works out to "not worth it".
Making new friends in adulthood
Framing it so you give a reason as to "why am I asking you now, when I never have before?" and lowers the emotional intensity
Getting a refund on online shopping when you missed the returns deadline
This isn't a 'hack' it's just, sometimes people will help you if you ask nicely, but you might not have realised this is something you can ask for.
Giving first aid / CPR does a lot of good, even if you don't save their life
If your loved one died, I think you would care a lot that someone was with them, trying to save them, vs finding out that no one attempted to help.
The science of gift-giving
A few research papers into how we go wrong when buying gifts for others. The mistake of overindividuation When shopping for multiple people, you tend to get different things for different people (because it seems impersonal to get everyone the same thing) and as a result, tend to buy worse
Task prioritisation is fake
Do or do not. There is no "prioritise"
On living apart from your spouse
It’s really nice knowing that, every time you see your partner, it’s because they made the choice to be with you, not just because they happened to be in the same physical location by chance anyway.
How to clean a cluttered space when you’re overwhelmed
No matter how cluttered your space is, remember it only has 5 things in it: trash, dishes, clothing, things that have a spot, things that don’t have a spot. Don’t look at the whole morass.