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On overthinking things, and telling people not to overthink things

On overthinking things, and telling people not to overthink things

Pretty close to 100% of the people who have told me not to overthink things are people with a history of poor decision-making.

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If someone says "I don't like [thing]", resist the urge to say "you just haven't tried the right [thing]!"

If someone says "I don't like [thing]", resist the urge to say "you just haven't tried the right [thing]!"

Or "But have you tried [specific version of thing]?" You know it's annoying so stop yourself.

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"Should I go to that thing or stay home?"

"Should I go to that thing or stay home?"

There are three basic phases of life, and we’re constantly cycling between them: Pushing Yourself, Overdoing It, and Resting.

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Which side will your margin of error fall on?

Which side will your margin of error fall on?

If your plan is based around perfect judgement and no mistakes ever, that is a terrible plan.

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"I'd trust them with my life"
is the worst way to indicate that you trust someone a lot!

"I'd trust them with my life" is the worst way to indicate that you trust someone a lot!

Someone stole my bike a few months ago, but I don't think that person would have murdered me. So I'd trust them with my life but not my bike.

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Why big temperature changes mess you up: science

Why big temperature changes mess you up: science

If it's hot one day and cold the next, or vice versa, you might find yourself more sluggish, or stressed, or just generally jagged up.

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There are two kinds of curiosity

There are two kinds of curiosity

Interest-based is when you feel pulled to learn something new. Deprivation-based is when you realise you're lacking knowledge.

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Suggestion for people who want to do stuff with friends, but get frustrated organising groups of friends to do stuff

Suggestion for people who want to do stuff with friends, but get frustrated organising groups of friends to do stuff

Don't ask people if they want to do something - tell them what you're doing and ask if they want to come along

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"What the heck does the word 'should' mean? It's easily my least favourite word in the English language."

"What the heck does the word 'should' mean? It's easily my least favourite word in the English language."

You don't like it because of this blurring between its two uses. For example, people often give advice without saying what the advice is for.

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'Try harder' is not a plan and it will never work for you

'Try harder' is not a plan and it will never work for you

If you didn't have enough willpower to stop yourself from doing x then, where are you imagining this new store will come from?